Damper and when to be ying or yang

When you strive to be the best in what you do like Oracle. This is your so call gain adjustment in control theory.

There will be other factors coming to hinder you, like office politics, family. If your gain is high, you will naturally be affected by the factors. Thus you must also have a damper installed. Think of the negativities as a minor unfortunate aspect of life that must come with success but dont think of it as unacceptable. Use a shrug. Forget about the small stuff, focus on the big stuff.

In every aspect of life, if you want to get something, you have to sacrifice some other areas. The thing is sacrifice the small thing but gain the big things in the meaning of life.

When to use damp, when to use gain. When to be bad guy when to be good guy? Usually yang in the daytime, and then ying in the nightime. Everything is fractal, then usually following our earth night and day time would be right.

When in daytime you are 80% yang and leave 20% ying so you would be balance. Nighttime vice versa.