This works II

1.If you know war, everywhere you'll be happy.

2.Work hardest to be the best in the market.

3.Be half evil.

4.Karate and poker.

5.Game theory.

6.Fight bullies and fear.

7.Fight bullies and friends in degree.

8.Balance and tune paradoxical opposites.

9.Free play: Work very hard then dont care about the result.

10.People admire bold and aggressive people.

11.Overload yourself to get stronger. Deliberate practice.

12.Passion.

13.Know how to study and research complex subjects.

14.Work hard, play hard.

15.Hacking: Immerse your life in abstract subject.

16.Dont believe in things that doesnt work.

Paradoxical polarity

To have a really strong and respectful friendship or working relationship You cannt always be nice and polite to your friend. You sometimes have to be mean and punch your friend a little. THen only your friend will

respect you and true friendship comes out. Cycle this a few times.

Love and conflict are two poles, keep them both in you.

You have to be balance in sane and crazy, alternately

Unsorted thoughts May 2010

critical thinking

when enemy detect you not afraid of dying, they wont bully you

tie yourself to mast

to bored then have to study control system

the exihiration of hard work

before exam vit b, body temperature

fight in order to protect yourself, you dont have to kill the enemy, just make it very painfuland difficult to take your lunch box, like a badger, show sean badger.

must have both polarities in your. To be evil to fight bullies and be nice to have cooperation alternately, to rest and work hard altenately in order to become the best in the market.

To have a really strong and respectful friendship or working relationship You cannt always be nice and polite to your friend. You sometimes have to be mean and punch your friend a little. THen only your friend will

respect you and true friendship comes out. Cycle this a few times.

Love and conflict are two poles, keep them both in you.

You have to be balance in sane and crazy, alternately

outliers

bring then study control like watchman, then war.

must be go lan in mandarin, kitten book, fight fear fight everything, read then visualize back what you read is best to confirm memory. pretend easy, experience, evil personality, be irrational,little eat knowledge

scott urman sql book

first read selftestsoftware to know the goal.

battlefield analogy doesnt make things personal. All are soldiers doing their job fighting for their country.

dark room therapy like movie and black walls but bright lighting in japanese restaurants to rebalance your nervous system.

Strength is important, but spirit is more important.

drinking beer can make you a bit more confrontation and aggressive naturally. When you are fighting the bully you can pretend that you are playing then this give you courage

outlier, bus study.

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oracle make my mind smarter, memorizing, filtering the whole amount of data, note taking is important

philosophy

sparta and ideal

too bored now need to hack everything, next is networking, this will be my life activity

it is all about focus, where you put your energy.

Always fight back bullies and free play

90% of your life problems come from bullying.

Bullies only attack the meek people even if the meek one is big. They dont attack aggressive one even if the fiesty one is smaller. So always fight back bullies, this is the way to protect yourself. You dont have to kill the enemy totally, but make it very unpleasant for him to take your lunch box.

Watch videos of wolves afraid to bully a small wolverine in youtube or documentaries http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7VoKioxH-5Q

And free play, dont care about the results of your fight. Then you have no fear or regrets.

And have both polarities simutaneously in your. To be evil to fight bullies and be nice to have cooperation alternately, to rest and work hard altenately in order to become the best in the market.

Hacking immerse your life in abstract subject

Then there is no boredom. Life is a adventure everyday. You go into a blissful state. You are playing with toys forever. Work is play. You dont have to fix to one subject you can be an expert in many subjects. Refer to Iron Man movie.

Oracle, network security, Labview, Linux, quantum theory, computational fluid mechanics, ocean wave mechanics, weather differential equations, number theory, Lisp, C++, control system, Go, chess, bridge, backgammon, western philosophy eg Roger Scruton, poetry, karate.

If you know war

If you know war, everywhere you go you will be happy.

This works

Karate and poker.

Fight bullies, fight fear.

Work hard to be the best.

Free play: Work very hard then dont care about the result.

Use battle strategy as metaphor for life.

Have paradoxical opposites simultaneously.

Game theory, ying yang theory, fractal theory, tuning theory.

Be half a evil person.

How how to fight in degrees.

Use boldness, aggressiveness, and craziness as defense.

Overload yourself to get stronger. Deliberate practice.

Passion.

Know how to study and research complex subjects.

Work hard, play hard.

Hacking: Immerse your life in abstract subject.

Dont believe in things that doesnt work.

This doesn't work, it dont reflect reality

New age, pop psychology, religion, inner child healing, mindfulness, rebirthing, deep breathing, yoga, buddhism, christianity, god, meditation, nirvana, no ego, enlightenment, avaita, zen, visualization, relaxation, aikido, NLP, positive thinking, positive psychology, self esteem, ayn rand, forgiveness, let it go, feel your feelings, being open, being in the now, primal therapy, trauma therapy, childhood therapy, afterworld, acupuncture, EFT, rapid eye therapy, Kinesiology, self healing.

Leave space in your mind room

Leave room for yourself in your mind. Too much revenge thoughts and worrying make your room clowded and very uncomfortable. Leave a large space for yourself.

It is all about strategy

Its all about strategy. Strategy let the weaker guy win

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b66YAvROke0&feature=related

Fastest way to memorize your study

This is the fastest way to memorize what you read. Everytime you read some small fact, look away and try to visualize back what you read. If you can visualize that means your brain already can remember it.

How real respect comes to you from relationship

To have a really strong and respectful friendship or working relationship You cannt always be nice and polite to your friend. You sometimes have to be mean and punch your friend a little. THen only your friend will respect you and true friendship comes out. Cycle this a few times.

Love and conflict are two poles, keep them both in you.

You have to be balance in sane and crazy, alternately

Keep two opposites together for balance for effectiveness in battle field

Must have both polarities in your.

To be evil to fight bullies and to be nice to have cooperation, alternately.

To rest hard and work hard, alternately, in order to become the best in the market.

Bullies dont pick on difficult people

There is one iron rule about bullies, they only pick on easy target, target that wont fight back, target that is afraid of the risk of fighting back.

There is another iron rule. Bullies stay away from people who fights back.

Read the book "The 50th Law". Watch people that dont get bullied, they are usually people who will fight back, difficult people, the bad people, the mean people.

Look at the animal world, its the same, even smaller, the wolverine fights back, and the wolves back off

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7VoKioxH-5Q&feature=related

Almost all emotional problems are due to bullies or your skill is not best in the market.

You solve this by fighting back bullies, and work hard to make your skill the best. Life is simple actually.

Life is a battlefield, the only thing that works is strategic thinking

From my experience, the most accurate model for dealing with problems of life is the battlefield and strategic thinking; war. The other models like religion, psychological healing, morality, meditation, doesnt work at all. In a battlefield, healing your past does not help you, you have to know the realistic terrain, survive and kill the enemy quickly.

Battlefield thinking gives you a bird eye view. Being a efficient fighter, you need both tunnel vision and bird eye view simultaneously. Two opposite poles create the balance for effective fight.

Battlefield model thinking gives you detachment.

Forget about healing and forgiveness and new age fluffy stuff. Your emotional problems will continue to stay if your physical realities such as money and job and bullying tied to your survival has problems. No amount of healing your inner child will help.

Thus you need to think of your self as a general. Manage your resources, calculate your risk of fighting.

Watch all the battlefield analysis documentary you can find. Like "Commanders at War" in youtube.com. Read all the war strategy book in business and life you can find.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MaZ2DQ678D8&feature=related

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_NxgdUGfZlM&feature=related

Karate is like putting in an iron rod into your lower back

Karate is like putting an iron rod into your lower back, even if you want to curl or collapse from fear, the iron rod won't let you.

Emotional detachment

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Emotional_detachment

Second sense: mental assertiveness

Emotional detachment in the second sense above is a positive and deliberate mental attitude which avoids engaging the emotions of others. It is often applied to relatives and associates of people who are in some way emotionally overly demanding. A simple example might be a person who trains himself to ignore the "pleading" food requests of a dieting spouse. A more widespread example could be the indifference parents develop towards their children's begging. It is not to be confused with being wilfully cold or unpleasant, because it is a positive mental attitude. Of course, the decision as to whether emotional detachment in any given set of circumstances is considered to be a positive or negative mental attitude is a subjective one, and therefore a decision on which different people may not agree.

This detachment does not mean avoiding the feeling of empathy; it is actually more of an awareness of empathetic feelings that allows the person space needed to rationally choose whether or not to be overwhelmed or manipulated by such feelings.

Mindfulness

It is the best stress buster, hands down.

It is the activation of prefrontal lope and gives you a center not affected by emotions.

Whenever there is threat, we will automatically have emotions.

Emotion is a warning signal hardwired to body.

However it is damaging to body. We need emotion as warning sign but cannot let it affect us.

Emotion is linked to the limbic system, read "A General Theory of Love".

Prefrontal lope is another module of the brain and is separate from limbic system.

We can shift our self locus there.

Mindfulness is actually activation of will power. And without it, we are slaves to natural instincts like fear, stress, anger, nervousness etc. It is hard to get things done when there is difficulty because we are controlled by impulses.

Mindfulness frees us to do what we want to do irrespective of the obstacles and pain in our way.

Mindfulness however must work together with fight your enemies and be the best in your work. It cannot work alone.

However I am not sure which one is more effective, emotional counterbalancing or mindfulness. Which one is easier to perform and allow to perform it practically.

Mindfulness I am referring to the buddhist system.

Super coincidence!

Just now your mother called to say I love you. She never does this. Then she saw a car license plate number 7794 matching her birthday. This is super coincidence!

Weiqi and proportions

Last two weeks i made the connection that weiqi is about proportions. It is like my eye for fashion. The proportions must be right. Rigid and softness must be balanced. There must be variaty.

Good proportions is beauty

So weiqi is a art creation like painting. That makes weiqi super fun. And now i suddenly know how to read weiqi book.

I dont know how this come about, probably karate, oracle or labview.

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Labview is just like gardening. The lines of labview is like vines.

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fighting is ugly. but if you do it efficiently. it is beautiful.