Life is a battlefield, the only thing that works is strategic thinking

From my experience, the most accurate model for dealing with problems of life is the battlefield and strategic thinking; war. The other models like religion, psychological healing, morality, meditation, doesnt work at all. In a battlefield, healing your past does not help you, you have to know the realistic terrain, survive and kill the enemy quickly.

Battlefield thinking gives you a bird eye view. Being a efficient fighter, you need both tunnel vision and bird eye view simultaneously. Two opposite poles create the balance for effective fight.

Battlefield model thinking gives you detachment.

Forget about healing and forgiveness and new age fluffy stuff. Your emotional problems will continue to stay if your physical realities such as money and job and bullying tied to your survival has problems. No amount of healing your inner child will help.

Thus you need to think of your self as a general. Manage your resources, calculate your risk of fighting.

Watch all the battlefield analysis documentary you can find. Like "Commanders at War" in youtube.com. Read all the war strategy book in business and life you can find.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MaZ2DQ678D8&feature=related

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