Dont care about happiness, emotions and self image, chasing this wont work and will waste time and energy. Your self is a few billion neurons like marbles interacting with each other, no way to control them. You can only control your action.
So if your life is not about happiness, then what is it? It is about being the best at what you do, about performance. If you are the best, if you are competent, money and happiness will come as a byproduct. You cant chase happiness directly, it must come indirectly from competence. Happiness is actually meaning, and meaning is the evolution of nature extending into the non physical realm. Just focus on getting competent, money and meaning will follow, dont care what other people do trying to push you under.
Without caring about happiness or self image, you will become very fast, light and mobile. You can react to the moment, and you will have energy and no pain of banging against a wall repeatedly.
Process orientation, not goal orientation. Focus on doing the best action, dont focus on the result. Process orientation book.
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