Fight fear

I realize so many mulling of my defeats and humiliation is due to fear. Fear if I dont mull enough, i will be destroyed.

Most of the fear are irrational. And worst thing is it weakens me, make me ineffective and easy to be bullied.

Most of our game is chicken game. Our goal is to win the chicken game.

When i fight fear constantly, I win the chicken game, and somehow my demeanor changes and people sense this and they will fear and will not dare to bully so easily. Respect is actually a form of fear.

And somehow i will be more successful.

Of course something i must fear. I cannot banish fear totally. The trick is to keep both opposites. DOnt discard any. Use tuning to find the right proportions. (actually the Go board game is all about tuning)

Fight fear and work hard. Two success law of the universe.