GREAT SUMMARY
Fight bullies even if sure lose to deter them from bother you.
Be the best in the market to have money flow to you with Practice, Practice, Practice.
Sun Tze, Thick Black Theory.
Make peace with all your shit so you wont be affect by bullies.
Half fight friends with teasing to deter bullying yet still maintain cooperation.
Be half evil.
Bluff boldly and blatantly to have confidence by playing poker.
Bare pain, no matter how bad you are you continue.
Be paradoxical having opposite traits at the same time.
Fight your fear feeling like fighting a person.
Karate, poker, programming.
Karate is the only thing to remember if you forget everything else.
Ginger tea, vit b, backnobber, spotting, life after death.
HALF FIGHT FRIENDS AND BULLIES
Sometimes need to maintain relationship with friends and bullies.
You cannot fight them fully. So you half fight them.
Don’t use either/or, use half ying half yang, balance opposites.
Use gradualism. Feel the rocks and cross the river.
Tease them and half scold them with smile.
Trash talk and clowning without resorting to shouting.
Look at the mammals, they bang each other to establish boundaries.
If you don’t fight bullies, you will be trampled to craziness and suicide.
Bullies and friends only pick on easy target.
Give them a hard time doing so, they will stop.
Sometimes be difficult, crazy, irrational and threatening.
Unbalance the bully with anger and frustration.
Attack the enemy to soften him.
Fight bluff with counterbluff, play poker to practice.
Always use “you”, focus on the enemy, never on yourself.
Have to half play in fighting, else it is too stressful and you avoid conflict making you weak.
The only theory that explains people is game theory, not religion.
Karate or weight lifting to build thick skin character.
Make peace with all your shit so you wont be affect by bullies.
You need to be half evil, half gangster to fight bullies.
Even with teeth knocked out, welcome pain and a satanic smile, bully back the bully.
Read Baki the Son of Ogre manga, or watch Pitch Black movie.
WORK HARD TO BE THE BEST
To be best in what you do is the only way to be happy.
This is the iron law of the universe.
Money will come to you and people wont bully you.
Be the expert in a complicated subject where few people can do.
Find that gate that blocks majority of people out because it requires hard work.
Field like programming, engineering and law.
You have to stick through the pain and get permanent happiness.
Think of the early easy life and later permanent hard life of janitors.
The early hard life and the later permanent happy life of doctors.
You need 10,000 hours to be master in anything.
Complicated subjects is made up of many easy pieces.
You don’t have to work hard, you only need to spend time with it.
GM knows 100,000 chess patterns, IM knows 10,000 patterns.
Ordinary people know 1000 pattern.
GM are not smarter, they only spend time to know more patterns.
Programming is the best because it is actually playing a big toy.
The best path is start game programming when you are 8 years old.
Get a couple of professional certifications when 12 years old, like Oracle OCA, Cisco CCNA.
Get into Google or Facebook, earn $20,000 a month.
Work and play together, you cannot just work only, or play only.
You need to focus on becoming the best in one subject.
You need to mass your resources into one area.
This means trade off and sacrifice. Trade off means risk.
BARE PAIN
Willing to bare pain and 80% of your troubles are over.
Fight bullies and hard work is all about willing to accept pain.
Hard to explain, pain gives a kind of exalted strength and flow to life.
Read Baki the Son of Ogre manga in youtube. Especially on Hanayama vs Speck.
Fight bullies is fierce. Hard work is discipline.
Fierce and discipline. Like sumo.
Watch how sumo train in youtube.
STUDY METHOD
Find good beginner books by reading the reviews in Amazon.com.
Get an overview first. Scan the book first.
Understand the subject before going into the details.
Note down your questions to refer back later.
Break it into smaller parts.
Read other books if you cant understand a book.
Do sample exam questions.
Do it slowly first.
To memorize something, vizualize without looking at the book.
Can visualize means already memorized.
Memorization is not useless, it builds neuron paths and then IQ.
Always read good beginners book first to builds intuitive understanding.
Dont read reference books first, it will kill your passion.
Use google search type "best books calculus”.
Internet amazon.com, search for 4 stars books and read the amazon comments.
Know how to research to solve problems.
Use internet search engine like Google or Yahoo.
Ask questions about life in internet forums like Oracle forum or Low Yatt forum.
Use Amazon.com search engine and type in the book related to your problems.
Read the reviews in Amazon, it has a lot of details about the book.
Use Singapore library search engine to find the good book in Amazon. Reserve the book.
Search the rapidshare or bit torrent for free copy of the book.
MISC
Philosophy: pragmatism, gradualism, game theory, balance opposites.
No pain, no gain.The iron law of the universe.
At the beginning, learn Mao Zedong guerrilla warfare, because most of the time you are weak.
Later after you have a base, learn Deng Xiaping gradualism and pragmatism.
Spotting: Look around and noticed things, spotting precise points
And moving briskly from one point to the next.
We leave our perception on automatic and they tend to introvert.
It will lift you up when you are tired or repeating flash backs.
Drink hot ginger tea to raise body temperature above 36.5C.
Low body temperature cause body cells to be inactive and cause disease.
Depression, shoulder pain, diabetes, low energy.
There is proof for life after death.
Watch "The Day I Died" BBC documentary in youtube.com.
Woman who is blind in near death experience can see objects.
Woman in coma can see the surgeon’s tool.
Lucidology 101 contains the best out of body methods.
You can contact evidential mediums in the USA if love one dies.
Google up Laurie Campbell, Mollie Morning Star, Allison Dubois.
Accept and use opposites.
Bad and good, hard work and relax, revenge and forgive, pride and humility.
Like a spring, softness give you recoil, hardness give you impact.
Too hard and you are brittle. Too soft and you are walking mat.
You have to be half hard half soft, like samurai sword with iron and carbon.
How to decide which opposite to use? The judgement is whether it make you win or not.
Don’t fight with negative feelings, use them.
Anger is fence. Fear is excitement. Shame is rocket booster. Pride is attack force.
Be soft and gentle to your fear and negative emotion. Cradle your fear.
Vit B to cure depression and fear and low energy.
Vit b complex can cause shoulder pain or no sleep.
Eat for a few days, stop for a few days, tune the timing.
Before exam don’t eat Vitamin B for 2 days because you may have problem sleeping.
At the morning of the exam, eat it for energy.
When you have shoulder pain, press hard into the painful spot for 1 minute,
to induce the muscle to relax. Use Backnoober.
Tumo meditation dont have to eat for months.
Garlic can cure cancer and everything.
Sleep well can cure depression. If you dont sleep well, it is easy for you to have fear.
Dont believe in the spiritual and religion that doesnt work.
You are doing something wrong fighting bullies and being the best.
Read the hypocritical life of spiritual gurus in Stripping the Gurus book.
All you negative emotion is ALWAYS the result of another person trying to invade you.
Fight bullies will cause them to back off and only then you will have peace.
Dont go there and sit and meditate, it will never work.
Know complicated subjects are evolution of nature into the metaphysical realm.
Looking at Oracle or Labview is same as looking at a forest.
Reading a luminous math book is like switch on the light in a dark room, is the greatest joy.
The patterns are beautiful. They are not dry.
MUST READ BOOKS
Baki the son of Ogre by Keisuke Itagaki
The Fighter’s Mind by Sam Sheridan
The 50th Law by Robert Greene
The Concise 33 Strategies of War by Robert Greene
Thick Black Theory by Zhao An Xin
The dip by Seth Godin
Outliers by Malcome Gladwell
Talent is Over Rated by Geoff Govin
Adapt: Why Success Always Starts With Failure by Tim Harford
MUST WATCH MOVIES
Black Swan, Pitch Black, Crows Zero II, 300
(manga, can find free on internet)
Baki the son of Ogre, Karate Shoukoushi Kohinata Minoru, Shamo.
(Great books)
Mind Warrior by Haha Lung
The Survivor personality by Al Siebert.
The art of always being right by Schopenhauer, Arthur
How to be a pimp article. In our portable drive.
Top dog bottom dog by Robert Karen
Get anyone to do anything by David Lieberman
The art of strategy by Dixit
The art of the strategist by William Cohen
Human becoming by David Richo
Winning: The Psychology of competition by Walker Stuart
Play by Stuart Brown
The Talent code
The now habit by Neil Fiore
Soul shift by Mark Ireland
Suibun no torisugi wa ima sugu yamenasai by Ishihara Yuumi (Chinese version)
Lights out by TS Wiley
Self clearing by Ken Ogger
Stripping the gurus by Geoffrey D. Falk
Top Secret: The Truth Behind Today's Pop Mysticisms by Robert M. Price
The Day I Died by BBC, documentary in youtube
2+2 forum best threads in internet
(Top intuitive technology books)
Digital Signal Processing 101: Everything you need to know to get started by Michael Parker
Differential Equations - by Paul Blanchard available in Singapore library.
Div, Grad, Curl, and All That: An Informal Text on Vector Calculus, by H. M Schey
Who Is Fourier?: A Mathematical Adventure by Lex Tokyo, Yo Sakakibara, and Alan Gleason
What is Quantum Mechanics? A Physics Adventure - Second Edition by Transnational College of LEX
C Programming Language by Brian W. Kernighan, Dennis M. Ritchie
Head first SQL by Head First SQL by Lynn Beighley
Hello World! Computer programming for kids by Warren Sande
(Oracle and Network books)
Easy Oracle PL/SQL programming by John Garmany
Oracle 11g for dummies
Sams Teach yourself PLSQL in 21 days
Oracle SQL Tuning by Dan Tow
The art and science of Oracle Performance tuning
Oracle Performance Tuning for 10gR2 by Gavin JT Powell
Oracle SQL high performance tuning by Guy Harrison
Always use Selftestsoftware Study Guides to pass certification exams.
CISSP All In One Exam Guide by Shon Harris
Computer networking first step by Wendell Odom
Networking, a beginner guide by Bruce Hallberg
Linux System Administration by Vicki Stanfield singapore libraries
UNIX Systems Programming by Kay A. Robbins
C++ without fear by Brian Overland. Get it on freedrive.com user login as your mom.
Modern Operating Systems by Andrew Tanenbaum
Counter hack by Edward Skoudis
http://www.jbmelectronics.com/product/tcp.htm .Also available in our portable drive
(To get Oracle, Network+ and Labview certifications)
Get a practice exam to get an overview, like Transcender or Selftestsoftware.
Find beginner intuitive books by googgling "Best Oracle books" or "Best beginner PLSQL book".
Read reviews in Amazon for the books.
Try to get free books by googling "(book title) free book"
Reading a good beginner book is extremely important.
(Quotes)
"Create a Threatening Presence: Deterrence Strategies.[1] Make people think they will lose, bluff if needed. People want an easy victory and will not attack if they think they will lose.
Reverse Intimidation. 1) Make bold manoeuvres and bluff wisely, 2) be a threat, make sudden moves, imply aggression, 3) move irrationally, create unpredictability, act crazy, 4) Feed your opponent's paranoia by indicating capabilities that they are afraid of, 5) maintain a bad reputation, mean, nasty and non-negotiable."
-33 Strategies of War book Wiki
"By giving into the bully, Billy taught Ryan that his intimidating behaviour was okay. Standing up to him early, even if it meant being beaten up, would have been better than spending a whole year in pain. Almost all bullies pick on people who wont fight back. They use intimidation and are rarely interested in real conflict."
– The Survivor Personality book
"When you submit to an aggressors or to an unjust and impossible situation. You do not buy yourself any real peace. You encourage people to go further, to take more from you, to use you for their own purposes. They sense your lack of self respect and they feel justified in mistreating you. You must develop the opposite – a fighting stance that comes from deep within and cannot be shaken. You force some respect. This comes from your attitude - fearless and always prepared to fight. It radiates outward and can be read in you’re a manner without you having to speak a word. By a paradoxical law of human nature, trying to please people less will make them ore likely in the long run to respect and treat you better. The is inner strength, however, does not come naturally. What is required is some experience. This means that in your daily life you must assert yourself more than usual.
– The 50th Law book.
"Survivors puzzled me at first. They are serious and humours, hard working and lazy, self confident and self critical. They are not one way or the other, they are both one way and the other. Sensitive-tough, strong-gentle, cowardly-courageous, mature-playful, humorous- serious, distant-friendly, self confident-self critical, trusting-cautious, dependent- independent, impulsive-well organized, happy-discontent, cooperative-rebellious, proud -humble, selfish-unselfish, lazy-hardworking, involved-detached, logical-creative, calm-emotional, shy-bold, loving-angry, consistent-unpredictable, messy-neat, optimistic- pessimistic"
- The Survivor Personality book
"karate spirit is of great importance. No matter who wins or loses, dies or stays alive, - most important is training, process, fight and the "Way" itself. When you are free from idea of winning and losing, you are immersed in the spirit of Budo and enjoy every moment of the Way, irrespective of winning or losing. Hear these words and you will become great karateka."
-Anon
"If competence is attained, Winning will follow.
There is no reason to disparage the desirability of winning. What is necessary, however, is to recognize that although winning is the object of the game, it is not the object of playing the game. page 39
The more the competitor enjoys and attributes significance to the play itself, the more likely he is to win. The essence of winning behaviour is relaxed enjoyment, playing the game. page 40
A number of balances must be struck: between aggressiveness and passivity, between greed and complacency, between impulsivity and intellectualization. most races, and all series demand these balances, demand equanimity, but there are times and places for marked variation from the happy medium. page 119"
-Winning: The Psychology Of Competition book
"Seek freedom and become captive of your desires, seek discipline and find your liberty." - Karate Master Ahmad Mehanna.
"If you dont work, what will you do? If he can do it, why cant you do it?"
-Anon
"Practice, practice, practice" - A samurai
"Cry in the dojo, laugh in the battlefield" - Samurai
Courage is resistance to fear, mastery of fear, not absence of fear.
- Mark Twain
"No matter what, fight"
-Bubul
“In japan the important thing is to continue, no matter how bad you are, or how bad you feel you are, you continue.
In kendo, if you get hurt, it is not so much your body get hurt, its your ego.
If you want to overcome others, you must first overcome yourself, your own weakness.
Kendo and zen basically have the purpose, is that it destroys the ego. “
- http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aIyp93JjpmM&feature=related
“There is this feeling of exhilaration in striving forward despite the overwhelming obstacles and pain, even definite loss. This is the defiance God loves.” – Bubul
“Maturity is a big part of success in fighting, because it means you understand the game - That losing is part of the game. It doesn’t mean to let yourself get conquered, but to know that you can win again, at the right time you can be great. The key to doing well in competition is to accept.
Accept you can lose, you can not perform. Take this big bag of rocks out of your backpack, take the pressure off, and you'll do better. Once you understand that, man, you can do welll. - Ricardo Liborio.
Everyone has stuff they get nervous about, their personal shit, and if you hang around long enough they'll volunteer.
But Phil hasn't made peace with it. When I goof on him, he'll get mad.
In one press conference, Phil was almost in tears, I get what Frank is about. He's not picking on Phil out of nowhere, he's not just an asshole. Mental toughness is on the table.
Now he is not in a peaceful mind, ready to fight. Now he is somewhere else, some other issue from when he was a kid. He's not focused on the task or the goal.
I talk to people during fights the whole time. - Frank Shamrock on his shit talking.
Greg is a diehard advocate of learning to function
under duress. The idea is to develop resistance to
the pain affecting your mental and physical
abilities. You do workouts to get tougher, you
have hard sparring to get tougher. So when it
happens in a fight t's not this foreign,
unfamiliar thing. -Greg Jackson
In boxing, hurt is what people do to each other,
an intimate social act, a pessimistically stripped
to the bone rendition of life as it is lived
outside the ring. - Carlo Rotella “
-From the Fighter's Mind: Inside the Mental Game by Sam Sheridan
“1. Be willing to fail...a lot
2. Fail on a survivable scale
3. Spot a failure and fix it early”
- Adapt: Why Success Always Starts With Failure by Tim Harford
“1.Chunk it up
2.Chunk it down
3. Do it slowly “
- The Talent Code book
“Work like an ant, fight like a badger, no pain no gain “
-Bubul
